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Post coming soon about how every one can be more humble

Things are tough now, but every one needs to be more humble than ever before. We need to continue to work hard and feel happy to pull through tough times.

I understand there are people in this world who are not genuine and humble, but these people will soon feel they need to be quickly.

Anyway, post coming soon about this issue in the world.

OUT, J

Two Parallel worlds on One Earth

Every time I walk in the city or my hometown, I observe two parallel worlds on one Earth. President Obama is trying to do something to constructively make American citizens live in harmony, but is struggling like any other President has in the past to get his agendas passed in to law. I wonder if President Obama had a chance to read my letter I sent to him and Joe Biden before they were elected. If the two of them did see the letter, it should make them think really hard about the general public. Jobs, healthcare, Neurodiversity… “Nothing about us with us” as the Autistic Self-Advocacy Network states every day. We pray he creates a life of harmony in America and the world.

One world is the Autism Continuum. Many people say any body on the Autism Spectrum has to be weary when telling others they are Autistic. Autistic could mean those people on the Autism Spectrum with Autistic Disorder constantly flapping their hands and not being able to talk. I prefer to say Autie/Aspie Community in the Autism Continuum since I believe any body can reach high functioning Asperger Syndrome in adulthood just by early intervention. It is important to teach somebody on the Continuum the necessary tools to succeed in this world because any body would be respected more. Otherwise when the person reaches adulthood, they will develop more and more problems.

Another world on Earth is the Neurotypical Continuum. The Neurotypical Continuum becomes a more accepted part of society than Autism by what I observe because majority rules. Many Neurotypicals are afraid of the unknown Autism Continuum. Neurotypicals don’t quite understand it and most doctors who are mostly Neurotypical have a very hard time diagnosing Autism and even Asperger Syndrome because they can not understand. If the Autism Continuum never existed, we would be missing a lot of great talents in the world which makes the world go round. I suppose that the Autism Continuum runs parallel to the Neurotypical Continuum.

Many people don’t like when they see someone they feel is different not acting/performing like them. Two parallel worlds are colliding on Earth. Eventually the worlds become one and every body teaches one another their different ways and sees a bright new way of doing things. There is so much the two parallel worlds can learn from each other if only every body would try to learn and not sneer at the unknown. The unknown can be very scary at times, but you must break away past it. Otherwise any body becomes anxious and worries about life.

Take it easy and posting soon,

OUT, J

Why Egocentricity is not good

Egocentricity…what a word, what a counter productive thing the world can ever see in a person.  There are two ways a person can be egocentric.  Autistic/Aspie people like myself can be tend to be very egocentric, but it is natural way in which we can’t control. We need to be told not to be egocentric and  in time we learn not to be.

The second form of Egocentric is when Neurotypcial people take it to an extreme called Narcissism. Narcissistic Personality Disorder is when people grow to become egocentric to the point they overgrow their egos.  They become egotistical.  It is like they love themselves so much that nothing else means anything to them. I have met quite a few people in my lifetime who were Narcissists.

Apparently, Narcissistic Personality Disorder is very serious condition.  I try to avoid Narcissists by walking the other way.  They look in the mirror and see beauty.  They don’t care what the rest of the world looks like or is like.  They are so selfish and self-centered, it goes beyond anything else the world has ever seen. Narcissists don’t think of others at all.  

We need to balance our egos.  Ego-balancing is very important for society so no body looks like a pig head.

How can we balance our egos?

1) Look in the mirror with your family not just yourself and say I can help any one who needs it, but also help myself.

2) Walk around town, city, or rural areas helping and guiding others.

3) remember where you came from.

4) remember what GB said in the interview of him on DMC. (George Berdejo)

5) spell it out: LOVE YOUR Friends, Family, and the world.

6) spend time with 1 animal a day to show human-animal companionship.

7) learn from others and don’t forget them.

8) Don’t look down on others.

9) Be happy and let things go!! What’s done is done.

10) Always try your best and be gracious!

I.E. , BE HUMBLE!

It is a balance. A instant balance which humans have trouble with. When we think we become balanced, we become unbalanced.  It is a jumprope,  seesaw, yo-yo type of thing.  There is Ego Pigs, Ego Balance, and Under Egos. We need to all try to Ego Balance ourselves.

Think of yourself and think whether you are balanced.  No body can take the spotlight, the spotlight must come to you. Hurtful you can be, but suffering you will be.  So, never take the road of greed and ego pig, always take the road to enjoy life better.

anyway, hope you all enjoy the week coming up.  May it be a week of love and joy. Work Hard!!

posting soon,

OUT, J

Forget who you are

Asperger or Neurotypical, Forget who you are for just a moment in time to think about what this world is all about.  The world looks all gloom now.  Find your way in this world to end the doom and gloom because the doom and gloom will eat you away like a tar and feathers all over you.

This world has turned into doom and gloom, but it doesn’t have to be that way for any one of us at all.   We just have to prove to everyone and the eternal one up there that this world is very precious to us and not to be taken for granted.

Yet every single one us including myself takes this world for granted every aspect of the gift of planet Earth.

For example, has anyone of you lived your life to the fullest yet.  My granny claims she has though she has many issues and problems of her own that she cares not to admit to.

Yet, people tell me to give her a break since we don’t know how much longer she has to live.

There are so many things in this world that need to be done such as budgeting your money, for us aspies its to be as neurotypical as possible since most of this world is neurotypical.  Even though we are comfortable with our aspie self, we have no choice but to be as neurotypical as possible.

For NT’s and Aspies to live together, aspies need to adapt since NT’s are the majority, and majority always rules unfortunately.

Aspie ways are seen as quirky and weird, and in order to avoid a segregation of aspergia and neurotypicaland, the eternal one only wants every one to live together in harmony.

No matter what the outcome is, no matter what happens in this world, it will always be neurotypical and adaptations of the world of aspie needs to be done to fit in with the rest of society.

That is why some aspies tend to have meltdowns and can’t handle the world anymore because they do not know how to live without being aspie.

Reach out, reach out aspies and live your lives as a person who reaches for your goals in life so that one day when you are old and grey, you get to know that you are still an aspie who has adaptated as much to to the world as possible to get what you want out of it.

That means cleanliness, hygiene, trying hard to listen, earning a living or continuing to earn a living, budgeting your money, and paying closer attention to social cues and facial expressions no matter how hard it is for you and I.

And for neurotypicals, pay more attention to the aspie community making sure that they adapt to some neurotypical behavior that is beneficial to the aspie because what I observed about neurotypical behavior is that it can be very damaging for an aspie to watch since neurotypicals can tend to misbehave and get in trouble.

anyway, gotta get going,

out, J

NeuroDiversity for all!

Aspie, Autism and anything else on the spectrum is NOT an epidemic it is just a way of life and  NT’s need to help us adapt to the world.