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Thinking Thinking and Thinking…

How much can we think about something again and again which bothers us?

I don’t know how to stop thinking about things which bother me. People tell me to just live my life. I have been doing this often now and marking a different way to my long life where happiness and deceit/despair exist at the same time. I can’t believe deceit/despair exists at all. Things must change. New Year’s 2009 is coming soon which means a New Year’s Resolutions as well. I have a few New Year’s Resolutions to make myself. I don’t think anybody should not wish anything since wishes are just false hopes. Instead if we just make ourselves a list of New Year’s Resolutions by writing it down on paper posting it on our doors or anywhere we will see it everyday in 2009, we will follow those resolutions.

Let’s see the New Year’s song goes like this, ‘For all gracious…” Well, I can’t really sing the whole song in this post, but you get my drift. For one day of the year, the whole world comes together. It would be nice if 365 days of the year the whole world was always together. We must think about our resolutions this year about how we’d like to make differences. Think of your passions when you were a child never thinking about how much money these passions could make or even will make. All things come with time. Nothing was built for a whole day as a kingdom of fortune. Of course first you must ask yourself ‘how old you are? and how well you are?’ because if you are not well enough health comes first.

All the people of this world need to drive thoughts in to their minds thinking of things they love to do with passion. Many people who work in finance or any other field giving lot’s of money at first hand, these are jobs which target greed, not passion. These days I find very few people who are actually doing finance who love what they do. Finance is a field like any other field, if you love it you do it, if you hate it you don’t do it. I am lucky enough to have found a field a love to do. It is unrelated to finance in many ways (Read the About section).

I just find thinking is a good way to set our minds straight. My mom sometimes says thinking too much can be dangerous because we might just so happen to stir the wrong pot in our minds. If we learn to use our minds to the fullest and continue to learn new things in our field of interest, we go further along the path to happiness. A happy person starts out struggling with vigor even though in the end the triumphant victory was worth it.

People may look at you like you are crazy trying to do anything to succeed, but you should laugh in their faces because you will have the last laugh to heavenly heights.

Posting again soon…


Giving out TMI

When we give out Too Much Information people tend to either tell us that we give out too much information or they tend to laugh and run with it telling the whole world.  Gossip is very big in this world, it is human nature, and everyone loves it.

Why? Because they just do.

Think of it like this, when we gossip our impulses give in and we strive for more gossip and more gossip and more gossip until the day that no one can trust anybody because every one has gossiped so much that it leads on to a different road.  A road that is more traveled then less traveled.

The road less traveled is quieter and easier to go down because there are no gossipers whatsoever and we can get things done a lot better.

My grandma feels that no body can ever be alone, yet she can never be alone because there are many people like myself who like to be alone sometimes.   Being alone in a forest by Walden Pond for example is nice sometimes to collect your thoughts and be your own.

Yet, sometimes we must be with people so that we are not completely alone. It is called Balancing your life.

Solitude is good, people are good, so why not both 50/50.

Being with people is hard when it is an impulse to reveal too much information about oneself.   That is why we should all be in solitude at some points during the day.  Yet, another person I know says that life is a learning process and that we need to learn from our mistakes when talking to other people.

Eventually we should be able to attain the teachings from ourself that the eternal one wants us to learn.   Some people just feel that everything takes time.  Time is what is going on now as I type.   Things become the past and we must move forward in each second of time.

Hopefully we learn from the mistakes eventually.   Some people like the Senior community will not really learn new things or change their ways because they are already set in their ways and will pass on to the next…

Anyway, learn and keep learning trying to attain the guidance from other people who know better than you.   The ones that don’t know better and are bad influences stay away from.

In essence, we should be in solitude some of the time. That is the best way for us to live especially when Aspies like me tend to like that.

take it easy,

out, J