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How connecting to others truly heals us!

We spin around, we fly, we live, …so to speak. Life is a journey getting ready to fly, but we don’t really fly our whole life. How do we get there? Well, we have to LIVE a fulfilled life filled with love, passion to do good, being who we ‘AUT’ to be, and earning a living.

Our energy brings us to the one thing we all love doing for the rest of our life, but some people resist that energy. There are many ways to helping others. Some people are doctors while others can heal in other ways. Some people are meant to give tests for the doctors while some are meant to heal a disconnection among others like what Steve Jobs did with the iPHONE/iPAD. Some people are just meant to listen and give advice. Some people are meant to build things, create, or invent. Most importantly we are all meant for something to do no matter what it may be.

Healing is very important whether you can heal with your hands in surgery or heal with your body or heal with your mind or just heal with your energy. Energy can be unique, but in a lot of ways very strong. There is good energy and there is bad energy. When developing our own energy, we should be aware of our feelings and emotions. If you are afraid, angry and in denial, your energy will be filled with a strong sense of resistance to society. If you are accepting and non-judgmental, then you will have a strong sense of liberty to fly anywhere, figuratively, to an area that fills your heart up.

When connecting to others, you must find a way to connect to them by going in to their world to learn about them even for just a few minutes a day. This may be hard for many people to do especially when trying to connect to a person with a disability. When someone has a disability, others need to find a way to connect and learn from the person who is struggling more than they are. Once you connect with your friend, your family member, or your spouse with a disability then and only then will you know how that person may truly feel. Some people who have a disability don’t want to be changed loving their world, while others want to be like every one else. Being who you ‘Aut’ to be means being the person you are and want to become.

Think about this idea for a moment: We all are living and breathing on this earth, but we all think and look alike. We all strive for the same things, do the same things to make a living, and contribute in the same way. How would you really feel about society? Well, in the 1940’s we fought World War II because we didn’t want every one to be the same. We wanted Diversity, Neurodiversity, without even thinking about those words.

Now think about our society today: Every one looks different, thinks different, and contributes to society in a different productive manner.

Think about these concepts for just a few minutes today, then walk to some friend, relative, family member, or spouse trying to connect to their world. It does not matter what label that person has. Once you do this, write down a list about what you learned by connecting to their world even if the person has a disability like being on the autism spectrum. Once you do this, you will realize the first step in healing because of the connection you started. Negative emotions begin within anyone because people lack connections with others.

I know I haven’t posted in a while, but more posts coming soon…


As Life turns and we spin around toward it we feel more connected…

Spinning around the room we try to find the life which turns toward us. The people who live in the future and the people who gaze in to our corners respond to our familiar remarks and smirks. We contribute to whatever we can in the world knowing it will all get better. Life takes twists and turns, ups and downs, but most importantly life gives us the challenge to improve our spirituality. Spirituality which helps give ourselves our own psychic intuition which most people don’t understand, fear, or forget about to include it in their lives. Instead people like to feel connected to other people which is what the Apple corporation strive to help give people the connections they desire. Steve Jobs led this movement at Apple and gave us so much.

Unfortunately, yesterday Steve Jobs passed away, but he left behind a legacy to help people inspire to be creative thinkers who think outside the box. He may not be here in body anymore, but his fulfillment to help people connect better, lives on in us, to feel more enticed to the connections we make. Steve Jobs knew what we wanted and figured out ways to give it to us in the most efficient manner, making technology utterly amazing.

Although his work is amazing, it also contributed to a lot of negative contributions like changing the way bullies do things. However his contributions has created good things for the world by instantly feeling connected to another person without thinking of being all by yourself. Instead of figuring out how to meet those connections in person which is the way of the past, we now find it easier to have conversations with new people.

By the way by meeting a person in the so called ‘real’ world, it gives us a means of growing more in our spirit by feeling confident in how we present ourselves. However, the internet helps make us become a better person by giving us ways to present who we are in real life by giving us examples of professional pictures of what other people post.  It also helps by certain websites which help us create virtual characters like on Second Life. We need to choose what will make us a better, more confident, and more easily satisfied person with our intuition toward being spiritual.

Some people refer to Steve Jobs as the great inventor of our time, well he certainly wrote a lot in our history books. We frequently want our world to be a better place no matter what we do, and feeling the most connected to others around us is what helps. Just try not to get too close to others…  The other thing Steve Jobs taught us was boundaries because he certainly knew how to set his boundaries straight between private and public lives.

May we move forward remembering the legacy of Steve Jobs and move forward to the distinction we have to live our own life!! Remember you have your own psychic intuition to connect within yourself.

posting more soon,


Long time no see or hear, then…

Last Week was a week of interesting dilemma since so many things happened that created frustration at work and at home.

This week at work on monday, it was the same old usual things going on, then a burst of someone I haven’t not seen in nearly 2 years.  It was her last day in NY, don’t know how long she said in NY, but she popped in to work and there she was, different, but the same.

They say that when you least expect something to happen, it happens. Yet, sometimes I think to much and wonder, Geez, this person I thought never wanted to see me again, and here she is again seeing me.  Well, she came, she went, and she’s gone once again.

It was a nice surprise, but now I look forward to the ARTISTIC SPECTRUM poetry reading that I will be doing on Thursday at 7pm.

Possibly a few people I work with including my boss my even be there. Gee Whiz, is that pretty scary, Just kidding.

Anyway, Drivemomcrazy.com will have tee shirts soon and selling them to a price I do not know yet.

Aspergia Greets episodes coming soon to this website near you,

out, J