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Leading the way to Leading Our Own Life

Growing up in a different view, I have always seen things differently than everyone else. Some other people view life in a way to always be judgmental and following the leader. Following a leader is good at some point in a person’s life, but being a leader will help you more. Leading your own life is more important and being able to help give others their own direction of how they want to lead their own life.

Some people feel certain groups are easier to follow and make a life out of. Fortunately, being your own self gives you more self-worth than following a leader. A leader can help give you the direction you want to go, but being a leader is more important in solving your own problems at which case you can do anything for yourself. Sometimes the feelings we get about a person we admire become over-dramatized, overly obsessive, and over eager to think they can’t let you down. Everyone will let you down at some point in your life. No body can guarantee they won’t at some point for may be just 1 time. Don’t let the sun go down, just forgive, forget about it, and give yourself something more by leading your own way.

Activism is an important part of my life and important part of so many others life as well. I know I will do what’s right for the people and animals everywhere. I have made many strides in my life already. It’s important to do what you need to do to allow yourself to be a leader of your own life. Leading your own life will allow yourself to discover the unique creative side of what you can do.

Some people are afraid of being their own leader. Fear is an emotion we all experience and learn to deal with. Sometimes we experience it positively, but sometimes we feel angry and hurt by fear. The fear we feel continuously distracts us from society’s misinterpretations. Sometimes we feel society looks at a particular person or animal calling them ‘Monsters’. Calling some people monsters is an illusionary tactic toward scaring other people. This is not right, and certainly not fair and does not allow a person to lead their own life positively!

The National Rifle Association (NRA) is part of the problem, we the people, have difficulties dealing with. People who support the NRA need to be educated. The media needs to finally step up to the plate and warn society about the negative words used in calling certain groups of people ‘Monsters’. It’s time to fight for our rights and help anyone who was called these words in the past to stop internalizing those nasty words others called them. Calling people monsters or other negative words about the Disability community, solves nothing, but creating fear. Many people are very suggestive and once you use the negative words like ‘Monster’ or ‘Freak’ or ‘Ill’, most people unconsciously internalize the words in their subconscious becoming very angry from the dehumanizing words. All Human beings are important to society while all Human beings have a purpose too, to lead their own life!!!

The purpose of our lives is to lead our own life in a positive way. The way we want it to be lead, not the way other people want it to be. If you lead your own life and be giving to society, the rewards will reap for you in the future. That my readers, is the essence of who we are.


A sky full of Lighters represents my angels and 1 year later…

I try very hard to live my life the best way I can, but I know I can always try even harder.

One year and one score away from an almost ending to a new beginning established in my life, I feel great knowing I feel new. In two  years, I have had 2 major surgeries which makes me feel today, spleenless, oops, I mean speechless as I noticed I have been operated on twice. I’ve been given a second chance at life or may be I just have 9 lives like a cat. My surgeries are truly a blessing to keep me alive so I can live a fulfilled life doing the many things I want to do to achieve great feats.

If it wasn’t for a truly good friend to help me get through my surgery last year, I don’t know where I would be today because she sure had the experience with her previous heart surgeries to be able to help me.  You can read about my friend on her blog Ellen’s Crazy Life.  It amazes me how this person spent time with me on the phone answering all my questions about Open Heart Surgery.  I have so many people who care about me so much especially my family.

My emotions draw in to the feelings I feel toward others.  I feel for others so much. I only want the best for any one especially myself emphasizing love, connections, warmth, and achieving talents by positive influence in helping anyone to gain satisfaction in their lives.

What better can a person do to help another?

I believe life is strong and hope is our newest generation to achieve.  Sometimes things happen to start new beginnings in a person’s life.  I am in a new beginning with a new chance at life.

I may have had problems connecting beforehand learning to symbolize who I am, but now I am off to a good start.  My life keeps on getting better even though I am at the beginning of my new era.

I wonder what joys I can give to others now, but most importantly to myself.  I wonder if I can bring peace and harmony to my spirit because by doing so, I bring peace and harmony to the world. It may take some time, but at least I am showing what I want to do and show I will do it.  Second chances, third chances, etc don’t come very often, but I know I am needed to do so much and get my life in order. I still have much to process what I learn and continue to learn in the future.  So here it is, I am moving forward in this life to be the best I can be fulfilling my name as a blessed celebration.  I know I haven’t done much yet, but I will!

It’s important to be a leader and carry your own weight.  Adaptations has been great as well as my family who gave me things I need to know.  Friends I meet either from conferences I have been to or Adaptations or my many friends in Ultrasound I have met through the years formed a great network of people in my life.  Now its time to branch out even more.

Sometimes I am stronger than usual, sometimes I am feeling down, but sometimes I just need to see the people, places, friends, and family who are always supporting me from so many different places even from around the world. DMC gave me so much. I feel so grateful in my life and thankful I can continue to strive for greater successes.  I certainly can’t wait to see what tomorrow brings to give me an even better life. My rebirth in to this world is a blessing because now I have the chance to do everything I ever wanted to do and get it done.

As a sky full of Lighters is surging around, I am feeling very pleased and happy my angels are around always.


Who defines leadership? and How can that leadership control what others do?

Leadership begins when someone is born. A baby begins to grow and mold in to a person eventually an Adult. Some people generally think of themselves poorly not defining who they are. These people need leaders to guide them in to the right direction. Sometimes we grow and learn from our experiences to define our own self worth, but this happens only when we see our own leadership. Not every one has this potential to lead others. Most people think they can be a leader without experiencing the real difficulty of life to get to that point of self worth and accomplishment. An emotional outcry of tears leaves every one to see a person standing in the distance shouting out “Follow me and I will guide you to your destiny.”

The feelings someone has to this emotional outcry leaves most people to feel overjoyed and comforted. On the other hand, some people feel threatened or even jealous. The jealousy someone will feel about a leader, you can only imagine the tension and fury deep inside that person. It is only when evil once again is born. A battle fiercely bursts open between the good leader and evil dominance. Defining who we are as a person can be very inspiring to many, but to some a disturbing experience. Finding our special gift can be difficult to find, but at least some people do find it in the most bizarre way. Sometimes we can find this gift just by meeting someone or even by knowing it from birth. Sometimes we have a gift that we all repress for a long time only to define finally later in our lives. The gift we repress is substituted for something similar to what we have, but is not really what defines us. For example, it can be as simple as a firefighter, but a person becomes an accountant instead.

Every one has some kind of contribution to give to this world whether it is defined or repressed. In the end, we need to define our gift being able to nurture and comfort what we can do. The successes we reap will not happen overnight. Sometimes success is defined in our lifetime when we see many people who see the money flowing in to their bank accounts, but most people don’t see their success in their lifetime. Unfortunately this happens many times. Many people before us who have died and became successful, lived very poor poverty stricken lives. It was only when they died people finally acknowledged them. Some of these people who died, we call our leaders.

Leaders can be defined when we die. Most importantly being a leader is defined by our accomplishments and character. Our leaders dead or alive, control people who want to follow in their footsteps. Whether good or evil, the leader has enough strength to help create another.

The significance of the leader who helps define us becomes a legend in our hearts. And someday we hope the life we live is one of joy and accomplishment.

Live your niche!


Take a lead

This posting is telling people why I put the current poll question up.  Aspergian rights is very important in this world.  They should have thought about it a lot sooner than now, but hey its never too late.

For all people in this world g-d created this world to help one another not harming anyone of us on this planet. We may get angry, mad, or ridiculous at some points, but this world was meant for all to live on and try achieve our goals.

The majority of people in this world are Neurotypical so the NT way has been structuring this world. That is not right!

Its why many people with disabilities like asperger syndrome get victimized from the very beginning of their life because Neurotypicals rule this world.  We must all strive for our own self worth and praise for ourselves.

Living in this world has gotten worse and worse and there needs to be a change.

posting again soon,

out, J