When your honor is at stake, what do you do? do you continue to cross the same bridge or stop and turn around and go across another bridge? How do you know when your honor is at stake? It seems like a good question, right. Well, sometimes it happens in life for whatever reason. Its a riddle that we can not answer of why or how it happens.

Changes are hard, but sometimes just sometimes you just have to do it. Being afraid of changes is like being afraid your world will collapse by changing even though that is not true at all. Just think about Mitch Albom’s book, The five people you meet in heaven, his quote “All endings are also beginnings, we just don’t know it at the time.”

Me and my fellow aspies tend to think that change will frustrate the situation more and not let us continue to be the person who we are. Avoidance is a good thing to a point, but when it is preventing you from doing what you need to do in your life that is when it becomes a problem. Avoidance is a defense mechanism that most asperger people like myself use to not face up to our responsiblities and the consequences are endless by just avoiding.

Facing up to the world and doing the things that need to be done is the only way to get to where you want to be. Whether your current situation is doing well or doing bad needing change, you need to remember what your beliefs are and not let your honor be at stake.

There are many nasty people at there and also many nice people too, but with the nasty people that manipulate and destroy the credibility of your honor towards you, you seem to wonder, ‘why am I even with these people in the first place?’

Change needs to happen just because you see you are going no where fast with something in your life and things need to change to get yourself going somewhere. Whether its an attitude change or realizing your potential in something that will make you greater than what you are in your current situation. It all goes back to your honor and self-worth. Everyone wants to feel worthy and honorable, when you are getting neither then that is when you need to change the something in your life that is very painful to even accept or is it really painful at all. May be its just very saddening that it seems painful.

You must do things in life that make you happy and that will give you pleasure when doing it.

anyway, posting later on,

anybody should try out improv and just do it like nike,

out, J