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Finding Truth to this called ‘Life’

Life is an amazing journey of self exploration in to the soul. As many of you may see today, there is a poll question about life. Please answer the poll question. Symbolizing our lives can be hard and difficult process to handle. Some people may feel their life is worthless, but deep down inside there is meaning to life. For instance take a look at this picture:

The picture symbolizes the question we all need to answer. We make decisions in our life when we reach a fork in the road every day. Every day there are decisions to make and each decision we make affects us. Whether its a consequence or a reward, in the end, we make these decisions. At the end of our life, we reflect on the good and bad decisions we made. When we make a decision, we must first analyze it completely without feeling emotions. It can be very hard, but we need to do what is best for our individual self. At the end of our life, we capture each moment in our head to evaluate how we did. Just like a test in school, we want to make sure we can correct any errors we made.

A long journey of 100 years can be difficult at times and we are put on the spot just like in school. Come on, you have 20 minutes to take the test and fill in the answers as fast as you can. By the end of the test, you hand in your paper to see what grade you get. If you get an A, you are excited and filled with happiness. If you fail the exam, your head creeps down and you are told to try again. You either decide to give up or try again, but most people try again.

The test of life is the same thing as a test in school. We are tested to show if we learned the lessons of life. Sometimes it takes a lifetime of 100 years while other times it takes a much shorter time. We need to accept many things in our life. One thing we need to accept in our life is when we know someone has died. Death is just the end of the journey on Earth because the person who died lived the tests given to them. They are ready to be graded. If they grade well like in school, you are honored, but if you fail for whatever reason you have to try it again.

We also need to accept every body needs to learn lessons in life. There are people in the world who strive to cure Autism. This is a very hot topic where many people debate about curing Autism. If you look at the logic of Autism or even Asperger Syndrome, Neurotypicals need to help guide us sometimes. Sometimes we need to try it on our own to learn certain lessons, but other times we need guidance. It is very important to for us to learn early so life gets easier rather than learning later and struggling. In the end only one person takes the tests and the grade we each get stays with us forever.

Every one may have different lessons to learn, different tests to take, and different forms of success on Earth; but when the time comes to be graded, we win. It is time to get up and be amazing. Don’t be emotional, don’t get angry, just be happy. It is a journey of thousands of days on Earth, so make them meaningful.

Each day we see new babies being born and we also see older people who have lived long lives die peacefully. There are many tasks to be done, lessons to be learned, and tests to be taken…  I am determined to grade well and live my life the to the fullest to learn the lessons.

Take it easy and I’ll be posting again soon…


OUT, J

Positive Feelings in a person go a long way

This week in the life of DMC there have been much stress, anxiety,hardship, and trying to stay focused on a positive attitude.  Many things happened this week good and bad. The bad seemed to try and divert my focus. Instead I end the week with a positive note.  We should only talk about the positive good things in life and for every bad thing, learn from the bad actions to turn it into a positive.

This week like many other weeks this year,  I have found many heads up pennies lying on the ground in front of me.   I pick them up and make a wish, knowing for sure it will come true.  I also have been noticing my right palm of my hand constantly itches me for months.  Every time I tell my granny this news, she repeats “It means money is on the way to you.”“  Well, if this is really true, I can’t wait.  I am dead serious, I really know it will happen.  All it takes is a willingness to achieve.

In order to achieve, we just need to stop using the word ‘Hope’ because all it does is create tension and negativity.  We also need to stop using words in the passive sense as well  and instead say “I will, I can, I know…”  Positive words lead to positive things happening in life.  Hope is in my opinion the worst word in the human language, but everyone uses it since they they think its neutral.

Organizations like AutismSpeaks do not see the full picture in any person on the Autism Spectrum because they use my opinion of negative words like ‘Hope’.  These organizations see a person struggling and want to cure the person struggling. They see Autism Spectrum Disorders as a puzzle, but it is not a puzzle.  People don’t get that life is a puzzle in itself.  Every one in the world lives a life trying to solve their own puzzle.  Piecing together what they don’t have and get it after hard work.  Sometimes it takes a lifetime like with Autism Spectrum Disorders or any body else trying to succeed, but in the end it always takes time.

It is  faith and destiny which guide us a long our path and with our proper use of our condition to persevere we build our lives.  Small steps a long our path are the best way to success because it is the slow and steady way.  Many Neurotypical people watch a person trying to succeed slowly and try to push us away from our goal.  These Neurotypicals which do this run ahead of us and feel bad.  These Neurotypicals  see this person afraid. They see this person not like them and become afraid of the unknown, but fear leads to negativity.

People with Autism Spectrum Disorders are very unique and intelligent. We are the people who can someday invent things or have invented things.  We are the people who understand nature.  We are the people who can create.  We are the people who love compassion.  We are the people who follow are dreams to pursue those dreams to the fullest of our advantage.  We are the people who won’t stop until our rights happen to be seen and heard. There is a willingness in individuals with Autism Spectrum Disorders to succeed at any one thing.  Every one else just needs to see what we want to achieve and guide individuals like us; people on the Autism Spectrum or even any body with a disability.

I see the work of many Neurotypicals willing to take their time out to help an individual with Autism Spectrum Disorder or any disability achieve.  Those are the humble Neurotypicals who should be celebrated all over.  I saw it many times with a lot of Neurotypicals helping me and continuing to help me.

Think. Dream. Achieve. Succeed.

posting again soon,


OUT, J