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Birthdays can turn out to be the opposite of what you intent and what a Great Autistic Pride Day 2011

Birthdays are a celebration, but for a good majority of the birthday, it is a day to reflect on the previous year.  Each day we live to feel happy and inspired to do the many things we feel we can do, but happiness can only be achieved when we give and take love from our inner most self treasure of who we are as a person.  Otherwise we feel shame, guilt, anger, and can’t move on with our lives a way forward.  It is a remarkable journey through our minds to remember this.  Some people may not believe that there is a higher being out there, but that is just their problem to a whole other level.   Pain is indigenous wherever we go.  It is like a knife which twists and turns inside of us stronger and stronger unless we have the strength to pull it out. My Birthday yesterday began as a reflection of the past year and learning about ways to excite and connect to the future. We only live once in a lifetime and need to feel empowered to be who we AUT to be otherwise we feel neglected, shameful, angry, and sad. Autistic Pride Day every year on June 18 is a blessing to help everyone understand, every one not just Neurotypicals, can live their life. People are too conscious to feeling shame, remorse, anger, guilt, and sadness. There is no reason for this. We should be feeling love for why we are here and what we can do to be in this society. Some people on the Autism Spectrum need more help to be in this society. Instead of finding ways to make these people more like others, every one should be starting to connect to these people on the Autism Spectrum who are struggling to be who they are. It is true some people on the Autism Spectrum have many seizures and more sensory problems, but this does not mean they can not succeed. Take a look at people with Tourette Syndrome who become surgeons or people with Epilepsy who can actually do incredible things like teach. The only reason why some people on the Autism Spectrum are not connecting well with people well in to their functional adult lives is because there are other Neurotypical people grieving and not embracing who we are. Every one should be living to conduct the orchestra to sway love and positive forces to help ourselves as well as whoever needs more help from the very beginning to enjoy successes and enjoy life. How can any one sway the orchestra in this direction? By not feeling angry, upset, shame, or guilt… Human beings are people and people are not perfect, but we are here to learn and move forward, not back. I am on the Autism Spectrum, but being on the Autism Spectrum we also have many gifts and have more strengths to give to the world. If you are a parent or a professional, you should know Autism is just a reflection and does not mean we can’t succeed at any one thing. I hope every one learned and enjoyed Autistic Pride Day and look forward to Autistic Pride Day 2012!!

posting more soon,


My small Birthday party soon to be a big event for DMC readers

The event for DMC readers will be sometime in August/September for anybody who wants to know more about Autism Spectrum Disorders. Planning for the event will be done by me. It will not be at any place too crowded or in bars.

This very small birthday party was just a small portion of friends. Also, the place was chosen because certain people wanted it there so I appeased them.

As I learn from life, I should not be influenced by anybody anyway.

The pictures show certain people in the photo like my brothers brandon, eric, rachel, SG, EG, and a few others. Like I said it was not a planned party like the August/September event will be.


The Famous June 18th has arrived in JUNE.  Today is my birthday as well as Autistic Pride Day.   Autistic Pride Day started a few years back from Aspiesforfreedom.com.

I won’t tell you how old I am, I will just say that I am happy.  Anyway, tonight I will celebrate my birthday at home with a home cooked meal and then a cake.

I think this will be the start of a great new generation for me.

out, J

My 28th birthday…

Today is my birthday everyone and I just like to tell you that one year older just means exactly that, 1 year older. Hopefully during the 28+ year of my life things turn for the better for me rather than the opposite.  Before the age of 28 things were were not better, things were turning from bad to eh to so-so and hopefully this year turns to great for me.

My life up until this point has been a roller coaster and I guess that is the way life is going to be always.   But, I assume that some of the bads happened because I caused my own problems without realizing it until I was told that it was.

Today is also a work day for me which is the first time that happened on my birthday. So, I hope all goes well on the workfront.

Here is a poem I just wrote:

Birthday loves happen only once in a lifetime…

I once knew a man who had a birthday.

He said it was the day of happiness.

I asked him “why?”

He said “I am 50 years old and I finally have what everyone else has.”

“And what is that I may ask?” I said

He said “Well, I’ll tell you in this song I wrote.”

“NO, tell me now.” I said

“Well, Okay, I met the woman of my dreams today that  I never thought would happen.”

I say “Oh yeah, what did she look like?”

He said “Well, she …”

(here is the poem/song) Play what ever tune is on your mind:

Her name was Velda, with those beautiful green eyes and that dark skin.

She lights up my life, she brings me joy and happiness, she gives me insight in to my life,

oh, Velda, Oh Velda…

I love my Velda
(now I am thinking as I am listening to this person, wow he must be in love)

Its a beautiful day cause I am with my Oh Velda, Velda the most beautiful …

(then he starts to sing a familar tune)

Something tHat I want to say, but sometimes words get in the way,  I just want to show my true love for you.  nothing that I want to do, then to spend every moment with you… You are my lady, You’re everything I  need to know… You’re all I am living for…

(I try to remember all the words but its hard)

I’m you’re precious gift.

You are my lady!

Let’s make it last, ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, until the end of time… (music wow this guys in love)

You are my lady, you’re everything I need the most.  You are my lady.

sing it with this guy now and play this song wherever you are.

Then I found out the song is by Freddie Jackson called You are my lady.

It must be interesting for a guy to fall in love with a woman that they feel so encased with love that the guy sings You are my lady by Freddie Jackson.

anyway, I don’t know if that will happen to me someday, but you never know just like what happened to this guy I knew.

speak of the truth, now, I really need to post something else,

out, J