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Presuming Competence in an Inclusive Society and Knowing Who We Are

Being in this world, we gain, we lose, we hurt, we pain, we forgive, we heal, we remember, we move forward!

Life is big! Life is a very grand, fearless adventure filled with much fear, anxiety, stress, and emotions keeping all of us feeling for situations, people around us, and others in our environment.

Having Awareness of who you are and the people around you is so important without having self-blame, pity, and not liking who we are.

Take a look at what I created here as the different things which identify all of us:

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Now take a look at this sign I created which shows how we ALL can succeed in this world:

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Being who we are is what gives us the experience of a lifetime to live our life filled with the emotions necessary to feel for everyone in this world in the way, we only know how to do it. Every one is different, but we all experience the same emotions. However, we all also want similar things in life too, one of those things is success. Being successful is different for everyone. Every person needs and wants different things. The most important thing we all want to feel is appreciation, respect, supportive network, independence, comfort from everyone around us, ultimately reaching for a goal to live in our special way finally being rewarded with material money to spend. (Thus, we live, from a post I wrote in 2011,  Interdependently!)

Nothing is impossible for something you want to do to make a difference, we just have to spend our time being are own individuals with our individuality remembering every one matters and everybody is possible!!

Remember what eugenics stands for and why it continuously hurts so many people, still, these days! Here is a good video to watch about that, Grading People!

Check out this latest blog post from Renee Salas for the PosAutive Flash Blog today by Love, Not Fear from Boycott Autism Speaks!



Finding Truth to this called ‘Life’

Life is an amazing journey of self exploration in to the soul. As many of you may see today, there is a poll question about life. Please answer the poll question. Symbolizing our lives can be hard and difficult process to handle. Some people may feel their life is worthless, but deep down inside there is meaning to life. For instance take a look at this picture:

The picture symbolizes the question we all need to answer. We make decisions in our life when we reach a fork in the road every day. Every day there are decisions to make and each decision we make affects us. Whether its a consequence or a reward, in the end, we make these decisions. At the end of our life, we reflect on the good and bad decisions we made. When we make a decision, we must first analyze it completely without feeling emotions. It can be very hard, but we need to do what is best for our individual self. At the end of our life, we capture each moment in our head to evaluate how we did. Just like a test in school, we want to make sure we can correct any errors we made.

A long journey of 100 years can be difficult at times and we are put on the spot just like in school. Come on, you have 20 minutes to take the test and fill in the answers as fast as you can. By the end of the test, you hand in your paper to see what grade you get. If you get an A, you are excited and filled with happiness. If you fail the exam, your head creeps down and you are told to try again. You either decide to give up or try again, but most people try again.

The test of life is the same thing as a test in school. We are tested to show if we learned the lessons of life. Sometimes it takes a lifetime of 100 years while other times it takes a much shorter time. We need to accept many things in our life. One thing we need to accept in our life is when we know someone has died. Death is just the end of the journey on Earth because the person who died lived the tests given to them. They are ready to be graded. If they grade well like in school, you are honored, but if you fail for whatever reason you have to try it again.

We also need to accept every body needs to learn lessons in life. There are people in the world who strive to cure Autism. This is a very hot topic where many people debate about curing Autism. If you look at the logic of Autism or even Asperger Syndrome, Neurotypicals need to help guide us sometimes. Sometimes we need to try it on our own to learn certain lessons, but other times we need guidance. It is very important to for us to learn early so life gets easier rather than learning later and struggling. In the end only one person takes the tests and the grade we each get stays with us forever.

Every one may have different lessons to learn, different tests to take, and different forms of success on Earth; but when the time comes to be graded, we win. It is time to get up and be amazing. Don’t be emotional, don’t get angry, just be happy. It is a journey of thousands of days on Earth, so make them meaningful.

Each day we see new babies being born and we also see older people who have lived long lives die peacefully. There are many tasks to be done, lessons to be learned, and tests to be taken…¬† I am determined to grade well and live my life the to the fullest to learn the lessons.

Take it easy and I’ll be posting again soon…


The observations of individuals around me

A view of different ways to approach people come in many different packages. When you approach any person, you must do it with care. The saying Not everyone likes everybody can be misleading at times. Individuals can be liked once they become a person. A individual only becomes a person when they transform in to a person. It is very hard for many individuals to become a person because a lot of the times, the individual can not break through certain obstacles which hurt them a long the way. We as individuals in the world need to become the person we should have always been, but had a hard time discovering our true self.

How will this come to be? How can any individual truly become a person? Is it possible to overcome the hurt which any individual struggling to become a person has been delayed? Feelings of hurt from excessive bullying or even Stockholm’s syndrome or bad feelings from what has become of the individual not becoming the person they want to become can be very painful.

I have noticed negativity comes from angry feelings inside which move past an individual becoming a person. Not too many people can do the same things as anybody else. Every one has their own niche in society.

Think about the life you have attained so far to see if you have had obstacles which hurt your image of yourself to become a person.

posts coming later on,