Yesterday was one of those days where I woke up to a white snowy view from my window. Today I am waking up to a new work week. I am thinking of lot’s of ways to construct myself and I know the many inspiring ideas I could fill myself up with. In the next couple of weeks there are going to be lot’s of different new things will be going on in my life. I don’t know what the different new things are going to be like, but I do know what will be the same. We can only control what we can control in our lives.

People need to have a job in order to live their life the way they want to live it. If you don’t have a job, you can’t have fun. A secure job which pays well allows a person to pay their bills and live independently. It is important to work smarter at your job so that after each task is completed at the end of day, you can say I didn’t act stupid and be proud.

Life goes in to swirls of directions at times when you reach a fork in the road. I realize my ambitions feel secure, and I am secure in all of my life. Doubting yourself only makes you feel more anxious and you can’t get any job done the way you want it to be done. Also, thinking of petty things to argue about only drives you away from the important things which need to be done. Every time you go anywhere to see other people, you should choose your battles wisely. If someone got you mad, take a few deep breaths to think about if it is really worth saying to the person why you are mad. Most of the time you can just walk away saying nothing (I know it is easier said than done, but the more you say this to yourself, the easier it can be done). This makes you the stronger person because you didn’t antagonize the situation.

The PBS special ‘This Emotional Life’ is coming out soon on January 4, 2010 at 9:00pm, and speaking of emotions, I have noticed so many people expressing so many different types of emotions lately like anger and jealousy. If you haven’t seen the trailer yet, please check my website for the link when you tag archive This Emotional Life.

People get angry and jealous too frequently and I can attest to the fact I have become angry sometimes myself. If we let our anger get to us, we do hurtful things we do not mean to do.

We need to find ourselves to be completely open why we are angry and yes, it is okay to cry when we need to. Just don’t let yourself flood with tears too much.

The week is going to be GREAT!

posting soon enough and my fiction story will up more too on Gregarious Revolution…

OUT, J

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