Some people can deal with that love that is gone and others mourn it intensely.  Anyway, there is ways to cope with moving on from a loved one whether whatever happened with the both of you. There are people out there you may love and there are people out there that need love.
You DO NOT need to hate anybody. Just look at Anakin Skywalker and Darth Vader and Darth Sidious all from the dark side of the force from Star wars movies. It relates well.
Hatred comes from something deep down inside you first. Like what Yoda said in Phantom Menace “Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.� And to add to that suffering leads to sadness.
Just look at issues in the world and domestic united states today…Â Name one issue that prompts your attention in a comment later on.
anyway, love is the Jedi way… How can we relate this to Lord Voldemort in Harry Potter books or even other characters that joined Lord Voldemort in the books.
My feeling is that when I get and read my Harry Potter and the Deathly Hollows book in July, I will have more a feeling of WHY, and think WHY.
Gotta get to another,
Out, J