Though since her stroke and she has to be dependent all of a sudden she is very frustrated and acts out because her independence was taken away. Probably when you have so much inner strength inside is why you can recover so fast from any illness or situations. You can’t try and be another person, but you can listen to them and learn how to improve. Every one knows that life is not a bowl of cherries because life can easily burn your mouth with jalepenos.
When home becomes hell, that’s when you can no longer call it home. Home is a place that you go to that you feel comfort.
Being someone with Asperger Syndrome, I need to make my own home the place where I feel comfort for myself for all my sensory issues and make my own life. I feel I made mistakes in life, but that is the past and I need to just learn from them. Like when I was younger I always had done things when I was not ready for them. That is one big lesson I learned.
peace be with you,