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Good things happening soon, but first a glimpse at the week…

The weather may look bleak to some because of the cold frigid air, but really it is just incomplete to consider anything to be bleak. This week is sure to rap up a year in which a lot of stuff happened beginning with January 1st.

Can you remember all the stuff which happened this year from the good times to the bad moments?

These moments show us the many factors in life which further our direction toward the end. People can’t seem to fathom the end because they don’t want to think about what comes next. People tend to be afraid of what comes next.

We live here, we do our daily living, and we try as hard as we can to live a healthy good life. We don’t know until we learn the hard way of how something really is. Sometimes we need to experience things for ourselves because we can’t understand what someone has just told us about the experience.

It is good to learn from other people’s mistakes so that we don’t do the same thing as the other person. At the same time, we have to know our limitations too of what we can and can not do. I know I have limitations, but sometimes they are hard to accept. Those limitations try and express to me to stop and think about what I am about to do.

Anyway, I hope every one enjoys their week looking forward to what comes next here and anywhere.

OUT, J

Embrace it or Get rid of it

When I have spoken to different people about their viewpoints about Autism whether they are Neurotypicals or not, there are different ideas which strike a person about Autism. Some people believe we should cure Autism and dissolve the very nature of the condition. Some other people believe Autism is to be left untouched and embraced for the very gift it is given to that person who was given Autism. Autism is a gift from god, but some people with the gift they were given have an incredible amount of other conditions which prevent them from functioning in society. Sometimes the sensory issues are just too much for them or sometimes there emotions are just too much to handle. You can either embrace it if you can handle it or just get rid of it to become someone different entirely.

Some people believe Autism is an epidemic and are promoting to the whole world to eradicate Autism. Asperger’s Syndrome which is a part of Autism are showing other people in society, Autism does have a voice. Yes, it may be people with Asperger’s Syndrome talking and not people with Autistic Disorder, but it at least shows the voice Autism can have. People on the Autism Spectrum handle their Autism differently. It is hard to handle some of the very passionate gifts you receive from any body because very few people know how to express themselves after receiving a gift. Autism has the power to be able to intensify an interest and do great things with it, but a lot of people with Autism are too impaired to even handle it. I have spoken to a few different people about this and they told me there are some people with Autism who will just never succeed no matter what you do to help them. I am one of the lucky ones who can handle it better than the others who can’t even handle a whole hour with it. Unfortunately, other neurological conditions interfere often with Autism.

The way the Autism Spectrum is and the Neurotypical society are as well, we are all still human beings who are very emotional creatures. Someone commented on the PBS video for ‘This Emotional Life’ on YouTube in the trailer I am in stating that she or he has Asperger Syndrome and never gets lonely. Yes, people with Asperger Syndrome and Autism don’t get lonely as often as a Neurotypical person, but it does not mean we do not get lonely in the mix of spending time with our interest(s).

Neurotypicals are more social people than people on the Autism Spectrum. When someone grows up in a world where there are less people on the Autism Spectrum, there is more pressure on the person on the Autism Spectrum to be more social. When we are off doing our own thing, every one else around us tries to push us out of our own thing. This is not fair to anyone on the Autism Spectrum. If I could tell the world one thing to help a person on the Autism Spectrum, I would tell the world to let them do their own thing and express their interests as long as they are not hurting others. Let them perform their interest at their very best, but try and give some balance by teaching them a little bit of social skills a day. This way when these children become Adults, they have the necessary tools to do great things with their interest and succeed.

I know it is very hard to know when to let a child on the Autism Spectrum spend time with their interest and when to tell them it is time to learn social skills. It is like the laws of physics, sometimes it is very hard to balance things the way we want them to be. When one side goes up, the other side is bound to go down.

It’s your choice to embrace Autism or get rid of it, but in the end it is your life to do whatever you feel will make you happy. Remember we are all human with our emotions and sometimes their is a need to be with someone else to talk to. It is good to have friends.

posting again soon,

OUT, J

What is going on now?!?!

Today is a special day! Why? Today is the day of the most Positive energy the world will ever see and hear about.  Angels will be all around today, but aren’t they always.  We just don’t know it at the moment when an Angel is with us at every waking moment, but they are there.  If you are a bad person, they will want you to explain why you are a bad person.  If you have done something wrong, they’ll want to know why you’ve done something wrong.

I know people want to encourage different things, but you can’t control what is inside a person which comes out. You can only try and help that person.

You have one shot to do something with your life good and if you blow it, you blow it. We are in the midst of the holiday season this year where Chanukah just ended. Christians are ’bout to celebrate the major holiday. While other people are celebrating their holidays as well. Altogether we all celebrate faith!

Next year, 2010 can either be similar to 2009 or better than the ever. It can be a start to change everything. Think about it! If you lift yourself up from the ground, brush yourself off trying to earn your merit eventually, you could give something the world always wanted.

The world has always wanted the people who strive for success to work smarter and harder to earn their rights of honor. Unfortunately, there is a long dusty road of hardship along the way and not every one makes it for many different reasons. Sometimes people give up or sometimes a really jealous person stops them in their tracks leaving anyone stunned.

Anyway, things are going to be fine…

Have a great day!

posting soon again,

OUT, J

Yesterday, Today…

I know you are expecting some more posts on DMC. So, while you wait for the next posting, take a look…

This is my workstation at home when I work on this site.

posting soon,

OUT, J

A new week ahead of us with inspiring thoughts

Yesterday was one of those days where I woke up to a white snowy view from my window. Today I am waking up to a new work week. I am thinking of lot’s of ways to construct myself and I know the many inspiring ideas I could fill myself up with. In the next couple of weeks there are going to be lot’s of different new things will be going on in my life. I don’t know what the different new things are going to be like, but I do know what will be the same. We can only control what we can control in our lives.

People need to have a job in order to live their life the way they want to live it. If you don’t have a job, you can’t have fun. A secure job which pays well allows a person to pay their bills and live independently. It is important to work smarter at your job so that after each task is completed at the end of day, you can say I didn’t act stupid and be proud.

Life goes in to swirls of directions at times when you reach a fork in the road. I realize my ambitions feel secure, and I am secure in all of my life. Doubting yourself only makes you feel more anxious and you can’t get any job done the way you want it to be done. Also, thinking of petty things to argue about only drives you away from the important things which need to be done. Every time you go anywhere to see other people, you should choose your battles wisely. If someone got you mad, take a few deep breaths to think about if it is really worth saying to the person why you are mad. Most of the time you can just walk away saying nothing (I know it is easier said than done, but the more you say this to yourself, the easier it can be done). This makes you the stronger person because you didn’t antagonize the situation.

The PBS special ‘This Emotional Life’ is coming out soon on January 4, 2010 at 9:00pm, and speaking of emotions, I have noticed so many people expressing so many different types of emotions lately like anger and jealousy. If you haven’t seen the trailer yet, please check my website for the link when you tag archive This Emotional Life.

People get angry and jealous too frequently and I can attest to the fact I have become angry sometimes myself. If we let our anger get to us, we do hurtful things we do not mean to do.

We need to find ourselves to be completely open why we are angry and yes, it is okay to cry when we need to. Just don’t let yourself flood with tears too much.

The week is going to be GREAT!

posting soon enough and my fiction story will up more too on Gregarious Revolution…

OUT, J

Spending time thinking about the next move

Now can you imagine what I mean by ‘the next move’ for me.  I can only imagine in my mind what the next move is and no body else can guess what it is.

Let’s just move along till we get there…

OUT, J

Figuring stuff out when anybody gets hurt

When figuring stuff out, I think it out loud to myself for hours or days even till I know exactly what to do.  I know I am a precious gift and if people don’t want to accept it, then they can go their own way directing them to other people they may connect with.  Fortunately, things happen for a reason, at least that is what every one says, right? When any body gets hurt by something they don’t realize how or why, it is very sad to hear about.  The feeling becomes increasingly clear not to trust the person who really caused hurt.  Think about it, if someone caused you pain, there is no reason to trust this person or group of people anymore.  Instead you look to move forward and be with other people who see you for who you are as a person. Besides sometimes we need friends to help guide us.

Friends come out of nowhere to help us if they want to.  I believe it depends solely on the person who helps us because every one is an individual with their own personalities.  Depending on a person’s persona and experiences throughout his or her life, depends on the individuals feelings to be a good friend or someone who hurts. For example, a person who fears a lot throughout his or her life not seeking any help for it, may in fact become angry and want to hurt others.  It becomes a chain reaction of destruction. Life is not intended for this to happen, but we need to be on the look out for this.

A person who faces their fears and does not allow the fears to influence them, becomes more weary and loving for other people.  We need to create a situation for every body to drop their fears completely and face any new fears they may have.  I would have to agree though when people talk more, they cause more trouble to hurt other people. I know different individuals require different ways to cope with situations because every body fears things differently. The difference I want every one to understand is with every one helping each other from our fears, we can begin to feel less hurt.  It is not a nice  feeling being hurt by someone else.

Life’s harmony is very hard to achieve, but first we need to build our egos up to feel happy within.  People become lonely because they don’t feel happy within.  There are times we need people, and there are times we don’t.   Romantic relationships are very relative because not every body needs it to live their life.  A few rare people in the world can live their whole life with platonic friendships without engaging in romance.  These few rare people are stronger than the rest of the world because they were be able to find their strength within to live their life and not fear.  Although generally Human beings find it necessary to engage in sexual behavior because not every one is like these few rare people who can live by themselves.  Sexual feelings for another person is an emotion every one tends to feel and I hear others tell me it is very hard to live life without having those feelings.  Although many people would have to say whichever way you feel about your life is how you should live it in a constructive positive manner.  Every one has 2 choices;  you can live your life alone finding inner strength like those few rare people in the world or you can live it with another person to help you through the fears you may have. Life is an unexpected journey where anything could happen with any body, in the end, it is your life to always do good.

posting soon enough,

OUT, J

What does this picture represent to you?

Life is an unexpected journey

Sometimes we don’t realize how our life really is until we stop and think about it for a few minutes. We sit down and think about the feelings we have wondering if it is another way for us to ponder how we actually live. We dream about someday doing something good we always wanted to do. Someday my Buena Salud Ultrasound School will begin and I will start teaching those adults on the Autism Spectrum who want to learn Ultrasound technology. From then on, I have much more things which need to get done in my life to achieve greater. Sometimes I still think about having my Ph.D. to be able to formally state my interest and research in my area. Then again, the school I will start, Buena Salud, will be better for me to do. It will support a teaching method which applies specifically to the needs of Adults with ASD. It is very important for Adults on the Autism Spectrum to have a secure career and a job. I am part of living proof Adults with ASD can take an intense interest to start a career and continue it. There are many living Adults with ASD who have done similar things as well as many people with ASD who have died in the past who before they died, used their intense interests to succeed.

Life is an unexpected journey and we don’t know what people will do a long a single person’s way. I have heard about some people’s jealous feelings toward someone else who is successful. For some reason jealousy goes a long way when the person becomes enraged to hurt the other person. Instead of being jealous, do something good for yourself. Being who I am and the accomplishments I have made to date, there are many more accomplishments I am going to succeed at. For starters, when my school finally starts and ends the first class, I will have successfully taught Adults with ASD who will have jobs in Ultrasound Technology. Moving forward I can ask other technologists I know to teach more Adults with ASD who have an interest in a good career.

It is important to have a secure career and a job for anybody. When you see other Adults with ASD not working in a career earning their own money it makes you wonder where the current school system has failed.
Adults on the Autism Spectrum is a growing people as the young grow older. We need to start with early intervention in toddler years so that when the young toddler with ASD becomes an Adult, they can succeed regularly in a career earning them a living. Whether this is in Ultrasound technology or some other career, it is still a living…

posting soon enough,

OUT, J

What does this look like to you?

This is pretty wicked… It feels like something coming soon…

Be Positive!

Posting soon enough…

OUT, J

Part VI: Gregarious Revolution

(Continuing the story once again which just keeps on getting more interesting…)

The ride back to the farm where Regina lives was very quiet. Light Year Man and Flash Forward were staring out in to space thinking about the time they first met Regina and her father. They didn’t understand how Regina could not remember them at first, but she was just a child. Light Year Man as Regina calls him just wants to get through his mission. Flash Forward had followed his friend along the way to help him out as friends who care always do.

When they get back to the farmhouse, something odd happened when they were gone. The barn burnt down to the ground and is no more. Regina runs out running towards the burnt down barn which had been around for 50 plus years. She begins to cry when she reaches the barn. Her animals wandered away in to the forest and she lost most of her crops.

Light Year Man and Flash Forward walk slowly to the forest when Regina wipes her tears asking them “Where are you going?”

Light Year Man answers “We are just resting by this tree at the edge of the forest.”

Regina asks one more thing “Why are you here?”

Light year Man says “Why do you think?”

Regina says “Well I really don’t remember what happened years ago, I was only 5 years old.”

Light Year Man says “Follow me and you should remember now.”

Light Year Man and Flash Forward begin walking in to the forest while Regina follows them. The sun is beaming now on their heads and it is very hot. Regina is sweating about to pass out when Light Year Man stops suddenly. The clouds begin to move in closer as the sun disappears. A hole in the ground with silvery light appears suddenly in front of them. Light Year Man says to Regina “This is our wormhole.” Regina does not quite understand, but in front of her is a dark hidden cave with Ivy vines all around it. Instead of entering the wormhole, the 3 of them enter in to the cave.

As the 3 of them enter in to the cave, Light Year Man talks to Flash Forward first. Flash Forward leaves the cave while Regina and Light Year Man walk through the darkness. It is very dark, but Light Year Man starts a bit of a fire in front of himself. They walk around the fire only to find a torch to light from the fire. After the torch is lit, they enter in to the rest of the cave.

They pass by through the cave which suddenly gets smaller to the point they have to bend their heads. They see drawings on the wall of many different artifacts from 10 years back. Finally the enter in to a wide open tall room that looks to be a huge temple, but instead is just a place to think. The wormhole suddenly appears again, but they both ignore it. Instead Light Year Man begins talking to Regina.

He says “Do you remember now?”

Regina says “I remember my father taking me to a dark place and I felt very scared.”

Light Year Man says “Well, I want you to remember something important from this room. Look ahead of you.”

Regina says “I see something ahead of me, but can’t really identify it. It is very bright.”

“That my friend is a gold crown which many people would call god’s crown, but I call it my master’s crown he left here nearly 10,000 years ago.” says Light Year Man

“I recall you showed some things to my father now.” says Regina

“Yes I did, and the mission I am here for is to prove to you why you were chosen to help me.” says Light Year Man, “But, do you know why you were chosen to help me?”

“No I don’t.” answers Regina

“Would you like to know?” asks Light Year Man

“I am not sure, but yes.” says Regina

“What you are about to here is shocking, but the truth. Your father made an oath to me years ago when you were a little girl right here. He had told me he would help me when the time came and the time is now. I trained him in this cave to fight and speak from a hero’s heart. I taught him many fighting arts no body which can fight the evil messing with the world right now. I gave him a name from my planet calling him …(shocker it was too loud and scratchy to hear, though it sounds like Man of Kong Fu). He marched through the cave trying to fight like I do. Although he was a very sick man like you already know. You had were always with him and made an oath too back then without realizing it. Look on the back of your arm now.”

Regina looks on the back of her arm which she always believed was a birthmark, but instead looks like a symbol on Light Year Man’s hand as well burnt in to his skin as well. Regina asks, “What is this?”

Light Year Man says “this is the oath you made.”

Regina stares at the crown of the King with teary eyes knowing every thing she has ever known is going to change now….

Light Year Man says “My mission here is …”

(as Part VI ends, you will have to wait to know what the mission is all about. Think to yourself, about the changes going on in your life and about the changes going on in the character in this story) Do you like the story so far? What could happen next? Could it be any better? It is a story in the making…

Follow your heart to the dreams which wrought in your life. Coincidences happen for a reason…

posting soon enough,

OUT, J

How can we balance loneliness/solitude…

Loneliness is all relative meaning something different to every one.  Solitude on the other hand, is when we need to be alone with our own thoughts.  When can we rest assure the need to be alone and the need to be with others.  May be Human beings should live their lives trying to make sure their emotions don’t go overboard most of the time.  Some people realize the strengths we have lie in trying to become a leader.  While others rely on others to follow because it is too hard to be a leader.

When someone finds truth in becoming a leader, most people decide it is not right for this person to be a leader, so they become so jealous and enraged by the leader.  Not every one can be a leader, but not every one can be a follower too.  In some cases, we should all lead our own lives without finding ourselves enraged with jealousy. This is when we need to be in the moment of solitude to recollect our thoughts for success. Afterward, we can sense who we are as a person and what we can do with our own life.

Some people are meant to write, others are meant to heal, while the rest of the world has their own niche in society.  One should realize what it takes to find their own way in to this world.  If your emotions always get the better of you, then you will never be able to do what is meant of you to do.

It is good to be with people especially when solitude can not find us anymore and we become lonely. Our emotions show we need people now. Like this picture which I just found showing our emotions are a swirl of frequencies circulating around us with different colors of energy.

Apparently, many people get too emotional in their lives to be able to think logical. They want something someone else has, and they can’t seem to grasp it, so their emotions swirl through their bodies. It is always very important to stay focused on the task at hand which you want to accomplish. Work hard because you just never know when you will succeed. Even when you do succeed, you should never attribute your emotions to become too excited and always keep a mellow attitude. Though, I have found very few people can actually keep a mellow balanced attitude. Even somebody else who becomes jealous of the success, you still need to block it out and practice the fine art of Occlumency! (Hence, every book even Harry Potter teaches us something)

Finding our way in to this world can be very hard at times.

Here are two good quotes from President Abraham Lincoln:

1) “Always bear in mind that your own resolution to succeed is more important than any one thing.”

2) “Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and remove all doubt.”

Anyway, posting later on…

OUT, J

Something to realize in the state of things

I will be posting something tonight some time, but in the meantime there is something to realize in the state of things. We currently have a society which has multitude of opinions. Every one has something to say and has a different way of doing things. I don’t know what is right and what is wrong, but what I can say is every body seems to think they are right.

Anyway, please be informed to be objective…

Have a great day and posting soon,

OUT, J

When will every one understand the reality of the Autism Spectrum

Autism is reality! It is not something to searched for a cure, it is not something which needs to be searched for a cause either. It is something more precious than anything people think about generally. Parents are not allowing there children to have Vaccines because they are afraid of Autism, fearing the unknown. When you fear something, you never get to see the beauty inside. Autism is not caused by vaccines because there is no direct link between vaccines and Autism since it has been proven by different recent studies. Vaccines are the most important thing for us to protect us from illnesses which cause fatalities.

Let’s talk about something a little deeper… Autism is a gift! You either accept it by giving yourself pride over it or you become extremely angry since you are not like every body else. Autism is one of those things where people who have one of the conditions associated with Autism can make big strides. I know there are different levels to Autism as well which make it harder for someone with a certain Autism to live in the Neurotypical world. This can be due to sensory overload and not being able to communicate to Neurotypicals as much so I can understand why those people with their Autism get frustrated. Being in a Neurotypical world is very hard because most Neurotypicals are demanding, impatient, and need constant speed throughout daily living. Now take someone who has Autism and place them in this situation, eventually someone with any Autism will start feeling the demand to fit in properly and impatient due to trying to sense the speed of the Neurotypical world. We need to all slow down just a little bit…

We have a hundred years or so in life to live and be happy. There are more Neurotypicals in the world throughout history and people with Autism have struggled in history with interactions in daily life. People with Autism and Neurotypical people need to find a way to interact more understandably than they have in the past. If not, there will be constant bullying, no sense of patience, and life will get even worse than it is now. Let every body live their life more sensibly and let people do what they need to do to succeed!

Take care of your gifts in life!! If you have any type of Autism, you must find a way to have pride in it. If you are Neurotypical and know someone with any type of Autism, help them out if they need it, and be more patient… Life will get better if only we give it a try!

OUT, J

2009 is drawing to a close…

The last month in December in the year 2009 starts today. As December comes so do the many holidays people celebrate. These holidays generate perspective on life and bring families closer. Celebrating Neurodiversity can identify the very ideas every body is different with the same faith.

Soon the year will be over and we will have something more to reflect on. How are year went and what we want out of next year…

Coming forth tonight new posts!

Have a great day!

OUT, J