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Never surrender, Never live in despair…Listen to this song!

What I have been reading over the weekend coming to a conclusion in my head

Autism is a continuum because of the difference and variability of Autism. It is not a Spectrum of Disorders. A spectrum means Autism is separate conditions.  It is basically the same condition expressed in every individual differently.  There are more severe cases than others, but with the proper help and support from social and life skills, an individual on this Continuum called Autism can build themselves in to a good positive success story just like anybody else.

Every case with Autism is different and unique. Every body with Autism needs to be treated differently because of the more severe to less severe cases.  This is just the way it is.  There are cases in Asperger Syndrome like myself who are different than my peers.   It is what makes the world unique to be able to give our unprecedented life something to remember us all by.  A world lacking in Autism, is a world that is boring and not comforting.  The Autism Continuum gives everybody a sense of nuances in this world.

We were all born equal in every step of the way.  Individuals from across the globe whether Neurotypical or Autistic need to live life on Earth sharing and caring for each other giving to this world some kind of extraordinary planet to live on. There is no need to live a life of greed and sorrow.  We are here because we have to make a difference.  The difference to show how everybody does not need to try and get their voices heard the loudest, the difference to just live your life to the fullest and come home after a hard day’s work.  Being humble is very important in this world.  No body is above any other individual in this world not even the living creatures who walk around among us who we tend to ignore. Every living creature needs support and comfort.

My great nation I live in and the extraordinary world which was built for all of us, we need to live a beautiful life with love and less distress and resentment.  Feelings of anger stem from fear.

Please read the book “On Becoming a Person,” by Carl Rogers whenever you get a chance. Here it is a quote from Carl Rogers book “On Becoming a Person”, Carl Rogers points out something a Danish philosopher named Soren Kierkegaard said which is “the most common despair is to be in despair at not choosing, or willing, to be oneself; but that the deepest form of despair is to choose ‘to be be another than himself’.  On the other hand, ‘to will to be that self which truly is, is indeed the opposite of despair,’ and this choice is the deepest responsibility of man.”

I feel this quote tells it all about life.  May be if we just allow ourselves to be who we are and help each other out in the moment, we could live in a more loving fulfilling world.  Happiness is the greatest gift we can give to our self.  Think of a passion from your childhood which made you feel happy and use it in your life right now.  Whether Neurotypical or Autistic we can just do it!

Posting again tonight,

OUT, J

Thinking of everyone in more ways than one

I know I have lapsed for a week, but have no fear I am just writing some things on paper first before I write on the computer.  I am also making a scrapbook of my life.

It is quite interesting to do a scrapbook and I bought a book to learn how to draw fantasy creatures. I am going to draw fantasy creatures in my scrapbook.

My dear DMC readers who have been so committed to reading my website, I hope you have a great week. I am going to definitely have a great week myself.

Thinking of you eCards are always a good thing to send every once in awhile to show you are caring about the people who care about you.

A suggestion is a website:

OUT, J

Just to let every one know…

Next Week is World Autism Twitter Day!

Join in on the discussion and you can make history….

If you haven’t joined Twitter, join Today!

Posting later on sometime Tonight…

For now, enjoy the rest of the day filled with as much love for the world as you can fill yourself up with.

Smile at as many people that you can today to make somebody feel good. You’ll be surprised because they might just smile back at you.

Dream a little a dream for me today!

When we do the best that we can, we never know what miracle is wrought in our life, or in the life of another.

Helen Keller (1880 – 1968)

Laughter is an instant vacation.

Milton Berle (1908 – 2002)

Luck is what you have left over after you give 100 percent.

Langston Coleman

Change has a considerable psychological impact on the human mind. To the fearful it is threatening because it means that things may get worse. To the hopeful it is encouraging because things may get better. To the confident it is inspiring because the challenge exists to make things better.

King Whitney Jr.

OUT, J

A repute

Think about your reptutation and figure out how you want to better yourself.  It is very important to objectively look at the improvements you make on yourself.

First Emulate Regardless, Neither Any individual Nor Disrespectful Opinion can take this away from you.

This is what I learned from friends in my life.

Anyway, think about how to objectively look at yourself in the world.

Posting tonight,

OUT, J

We must learn not to yell or curse…

We must not yell, scream, or curse to show the next generation of individuals in the world how to act and talk.  We need to stop ourselves from doing this all the time. Here is a cool poster I found on the street today.

Hope you enjoy,

OUT, J

Let’s Go Angel…

These are pictures of a sign saying Let’s Go and another picture of what we may perceive to be clouds, but could look like some kind of spiritual being in the sky.

check it OUT!

posting later on,

OUT, J

I wound up sliding into a wormhole in to another planet just like Earth and I found this…

Thank goodnness... These were the friends who were seen at my birthday party at Four Face Liar

This is what the wormhole experience looked like to me.

This is really scary!Thank goodness it didn't last that long.

Rich lives, Poor lives, don’t we all live rich lives since we all have love first

This world is living under circumstances of stupidity and absurdity.  People want to live trying to worry about money.  Money is not the world’s most renowned object of precious gift for the world. The one thing this world needs to understand is the materials which are given to us are for special rewards we are supposed to earn.  There are too many people in this world who receive gifts or buy gifts for themselves when they don’t even deserve it.  There are even people in this world who want inheritance estate when they do nothing to help the person they want some piece of the inheritance estate.  Do me a favor? If you do not intend to help a person in times of terminal illness, do not demand part of an estate, you do not deserve. Only the people who help a terminally ill individual deserve part of an estate.  This is just my opinion, I wonder how many of you all agree with me. This is quite sad that people demand things they do not deserve.

A reward is a gift of material someone receives because they earned it.  I want to earn my gifts, not just receive gifts I do not earn.  It is an earnest way of living. We need to earn our way through this world to be able to live our life respectfully.  No body knows anymore what they truly desire because everybody feels they have everything they want already. It is probably because people use their emotions too much.

I do feel there are too many people in this world who use their emotions too much, hence, every one does. I think it is human nature.  It still means we must control our emotions to enter in to a new realm of life.  Emotions control us too much and even I have trouble with this. Emotions are Love, Anger, Sadness,… all related to feelings, moods, thoughts, and behaviors.

The emotions of our behaviors control our everlasting self all the time.  It even controls animals too.  Our emotions need to be controlled in times of fear.  We can not fear anything. Like Yoda says, “Fear leads to anger, Anger leads to Hate, Hate leads to Suffering.”  We all need to determine what we fear or what many things we fear, letting go of it.

More to come on this topic. It’s CANY time… learning drama acting.  BTW,  I am continuing reading Animals in Translation by Temple Grandin and finding it to be a fantastic book. Thank you to the person who gave this book to me as a gift.  I really appreciate it and I love the book a lot.  Now I feel like reading the book “Thinking in Pictures” which is another great book I heard many people say.

Take it easy,

OUT, J

I want everybody to know what really matters is every single individual needs attention and Love in support of times of Negativity

My life up to this point has shown my friend and I are gaining more and more media attention. It is important to stay humble and true to yourself in times of media attention.  If not, the doors slam close on you in a blink of an eye.  My life has also been the yin and yang and due to unusual circumstances with a particular surgery coming up, my website will be on hold for a week in December.  At this time please reflect on everything I have written and always remember what I write is my true feelings this world needs to focus on.

The main idea in life is to realize every single person needs the attention and no body is above anybody else.  We must always remain humble and true to ourselves at all times of our lives.  Things can continue to flourish for people as long as nothing gets in the way of their goals especially for me.  I still have many goals to enable me to live my life better with more quality and stimulus to gain my goals in life.

I feel I am doing well, but I also need improvement like anybody else in this world.  A goal is not done until we are set and no body in this world is set since there is many people who need to restart their lives.  A life goes through cycles and since everybody is not completely stable in one lifetime, we need to focus on the task to allow the doors to remain open.  It feels nice to have a door open, but when the door closes in front of your face, it feels sad and hurts to our inner core.

I am sure many of you in this Global Crisis has seen the door slam shut in front of your face, but another door can open up as long as you focus on a specific task to restart your lives.  It starts with one small step and ends with a small step as the another door cracks open to find a whole new world.

May be the next best thing for all of us to do is live our life trying to help as many people in this world as we can.   It is what will make every body happy.  Every body in this world has a right to tell people what hurts inside and needs to feel better about themselves.

I hope someday people who have hurt other people in this world could understand, they would feel the same way if they felt hurt as well.

Enjoy the love in this world and please do enjoy each other.

Think Positive, Think grounded, never think you are above anybody else.  We must all stay humble…

Take it easy,

OUT, J

My Friend Manny on NPR, WNYC.ORG

Here is the radio link to my friend Manny on WNYC.ORG. We both have Asperger Syndrome. We help each other out no matter what the circumstance is. Everything we do, we do it to help the world out. We are part of the process in helping every one in the world understand the Autism Spectrum. Being educated is very important and being able to learn is very important. Since we all have a mind and can learn infinitely, why the heck not learn as much as we can. The mind is like the infinite universe. Einstein said the Space time continuum, I call it a step further, the mind, space, time continuum. What if the mind can give us answers to the universe? We need to understand what every individual feels and lives like in this world. Remember to always try and be the rare person to use more than 10 % of your mind.

here is the original link:

As for now, I bring you my friend Manny’s radio show introduction on NPR!

OUT, J

Posting again Tonight hopefully

I have been quite busy with a lot going on in my life at the moment.

I don’t want my readers thinking I am not writing anything. I want you all to enjoy the poetry I wrote.

OUT, J

Poetry

Trails to the Kingdom,

by JSR

Marching through the canvas
I see who is following me.
They are even watching me.
They see my ever existence
which no body would ever
know which is first
and which is over.
I sit through the valley
of streams between
a canvas of rock
after marching my feet
through a big trail.
Sitting on the rock now,
I wonder who I will
see passing me by…
May be I am alone on
a path no body else travels to.
It must be the road
less traveled since my
body and mind walk through
a trail filled with light
and an end of a trail
which leads to the
spirit filled with more than
anybody has ever seen.
A success so incredible
no body will ever
reach. A success
I will be the first
to achieve, but not the last.
The success to reach the
Kingdom at the end of my trail.

OUT, J

A Drivemomcrazy.com Event coming soon would be good…

I am in the mood to have another Drivemomcrazy.com event coming soon after New Year’s Eve for a day event since I am not really a night person.  I don’ t know any details yet since this is just an idea, but I will post later on to tell my DMC readers about this event.

I have many things going on in the month of December and these things also need time to plan.  It will most likely be after New Year’s Eve sometime in the new year 2009.

This is an exciting time for DMC and for the world.  I want everybody to think of something which makes them happy even if it was 1 thing from their childhood.  Happiness is major contributer to being good in this world. We need to think of the Jedi Light like Luke and work in our passion in life.  I do. Why can’t others do the same?

The theme for this event will be Happiness in this world in finding and maintaining your passion in life like I did in a job/career. We will also spread the word of Neurodiversity.
The KEY to this world is finding a career that makes somebody happy and love what they do.  Let’s see if this event in  2009 can be a success.  No body should have any job which makes them miserable, a job should also be a career which makes somebody happy.  A career where they can keep on striving and building on until one day they become speakers at conferences or have their own conference. A career where they can do research and teach people as well. In my case, the Buena Salud Ultrasound School to teach other people with Autism Spectrum Disorders what I know.

I still want to begin my own Cardiac And Vascular Organization which will involve more than what any other Ultrasound organization does.

posting later on,

OUT, J