People sometimes take life for granted and I suppose they also take love for granted too.   I know I take love for granted when I messed up specific relationships in my life from a couple of years back and beyond that,  and now people move on. Eh, what can you do!  We all make mistakes and I certainly do.   My friends right now, tell me that it is that woman’s loss not mine because I am a great person who everyone says is very handsome and wonderful all deep inside and out, and very intelligent.  One day I am going to meet that special someone woman in my life even though I so dearly loved that special woman that left me, and the new special someone woman in my life soon to be will be even better than the other one.  May be the other woman I so dearly loved will get jealous that she is not with me.   One thing I learned is that it doesn’t matter what culture the woman you fall in love with is because once you are in love, that’s it, YOU’RE IN LOVE! And there is no stopping at that from falling in love… Many people especially grandma’s and mother’s can try and convince you to only stay within your own, but that is not right because you are only limiting yourself to certain women.

So, Take life, take your life and marry the woman you fall in love with not caring what culture she is from.

That is what I learned from love…

out, J

There are so many people that love certain people, Why because they just do.

Anyway, think about who do you love these days and wonder to yourself, do they love you back.

How many levels of love are there in this world?

This is controversal, one form of love is sexual love but do we all love everyone sexually? NOT, why would you love everyone sexually that is disgusting.

Anyway, may be there is one person out there loves every one sexually that I know and that person is disgusting because it just is.

Anyway, there is sexual love as well as love for g-d, love for family, and love for friendship.

Which love do you fall in to with whom you are thinking about?

I hope you don’t find you are sexually in love with every one, eeewww!

Anyway, there is also love for inanimate objects too that you find are inspiring and help you out. But, that the fifth form of love that you find is the best for you.

So, there is 5 forms  of love; sexual, friendship, family, inanimate objects.

Have you ever fallen in love with beautiful rock formations and trees or better yet a beautiful stone cave, well it is love but a different form of love.

anyway, have a good day,

out, J

We all strive for love.

We all strive for power though we do not get it the way we want to.

We all strive for working our tails off.

All of this leads to being the most positive we can be…

The movie Stardust, based on Neil Gaiman’s book. though reading the book first could have made things a lot better for planting pictures in my head,  I suppose the movie will do.

I am sure the book is better, but the movie was excellent story telling.

Neil Gaiman is a an amazing novelist and creator of fantasy.

The movie was about how a boy/man named Triesten discovers who he is.  His life starts out in the movie like he can not do much for himself, but he tries to a bit.  He lives with his single father where he had no idea who and where his mom was/is at the moments of time.

He has a first love, Victoria who he strives to be with, but she treats him like he is nothing  and that really frustrates him.  This man, Humphrey gets upset that Triesten is going after his woman, so Humphrey makes him feel belittled.

When one day he takes Victoria to the park with champagne and food, he feels he can win her over Humphrey by buying her love.

That is when destiny calls and Triesten’s life is finally revealed to him during a journey to find out.

He and Victoria watch what it looks like a shooting star fly and land on the earth creating a crater…

When Triesten goes  to his father after finding out from trying to cross a wall barrier seperating humans from the other world.  Triesten finds out that his father crossed the wall himself and that is how Triesten became Triesten because the father met a princess who helped create Triesten.  But, without Triesten realizing he is a prince during the whole movie.

This movie is about self discovery and finding out what love is all about.

He gets the woman of his dreams, becomes king of the other world but after a fight with witches and his uncles he didn’t realize were his uncles.  And he finally meets his mother the princess. He falls in love with the woman who was the shooting star.

Love is unconditional yet destiny sort of chooses who we will love in the future.

In ways I can relate to Triesten on many aspects of life.  There are woman out there I have thought I fell in love with, but because they thought I was boy and not a man, they wanted the other guy.

Triesten is a wonderful person/character that I can relate to.

Anyway, have a good day, I will be in Central Park…

out, J

whatever you can do, I can do better, whatever you do, I can do too…

for my family and my friends that love and care about me including everyone…

Smile tho’ your heart is aching,
Smile even tho’ it’s breaking,
When there are clouds in the sky
You’ll get by,

If you smile
thro’ your fear and sorrow,
Smile and maybe tomorrow,
You’ll see the sun come shin-ing thro’ for you

Light up your face with gladness,
Hide ev-’ry trace of sadness,
Al -’tho a tear may be ever so near,

That’s the time,
You must keep on trying,
Smile, what’s the use of crying,
You’ll find that life is still worth-while,

If you just smile,

There are so many things that matter in this world.  there is love, there is hate, they coincide together.  They are both very strong words.  Who do you love? Who do you even hate? the love that comes is the love that goes.  Just listen to the Love theme from St. Elmo’s fire.  Its true that people come into our lives who we love and then its gone.  It lasts a few seconds to a few hours to a few days to months, years, and for some odd reason it ends too.   Most of the time because something happens to end it whether with a death or a simple goodbye or an argument that puts the both of you in to different sides of the world.

Some people can deal with that love that is gone and others mourn it intensely.   Anyway, there is ways to cope with moving on from a loved one whether whatever happened with the both of you.  There are people out there you may love and there are people out there that need love.

You DO NOT need to hate anybody.  Just look at Anakin Skywalker and Darth Vader and Darth Sidious all from the dark side of the force from Star wars movies. It relates well.

Hatred comes from something deep down inside you first.  Like what Yoda said in Phantom Menace  “Fear is the path to the dark side. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to suffering.�  And to add to that suffering leads to sadness.

Just look at issues in the world and domestic united states today…  Name one issue that prompts your attention in a comment later on.

anyway, love is the Jedi way… How can we relate this to Lord Voldemort in Harry Potter books or even other characters that joined Lord Voldemort in the books.

My feeling is that when I get and read my Harry Potter and the Deathly Hollows book in July, I will have more a feeling of WHY, and think WHY.

Gotta get to another,

Out, J