Many people love people for certain reasons. Reasons that are unexplainable by the man or woman who loves the person. There are so many different forms of love. The one true love is trusting and ultimately being so committed that you only want to love the one person who you truly love. Though, you can like a friend to be only platonic love where the one person you love will never be greater than just a friendship.

There are many movies that show the true feelings of love, one that will come out soon called “Adam” with Hugh Dancy which is still in post production while the other is “The Truth about Cats and Dogs” with Janine Garofalo. These movies and much more are to show the getting to know a person so much that you just have to fall in love with them.

Commitment is very hard. Just because somebody looks gorgeous doesn’t mean they are for you. We may like them a lot and think about them, but in the end if we ever meet them in person they become ugly. Which brings me to a story or a past theory of mine, there is four areas of a person that each person weighs on when evaluating if they truly love a person or not. This varies from person to person:

Pretty outside, Pretty inside

Ugly outside, Pretty inside

Pretty outside, Ugly inside

Ugly outside, Ugly Inside

These categories are what I created. Yet, The ones that get the most underlooked are the Ugly on the outside, Pretty in the inside because most people don’t recognize these people. The ones who do see these types of people are the ones who have potential to be in love. Yet, everybody strives to have the first one I mentioned, but everyone is meant to be with a person for a specific reason and it is very hard to find a person like the first I mentioned. Somebody who finds someone to be ugly in the inside might be completely pretty to a different person. Or a person who finds a person is pretty in the inside, the other person might think differently. It all varies from individual to individual. That is what makes us individuals with our own feelings and intuitions. We meet certain people for a reason who complete us. Every individual has their own feelings on who they feel is in what category.

This creates a sense of individuality where everybody finds someone to love them. Just don’t think superficially think deeper than that. Think if the person you are with is the person that fits you emotionally and intellectually.

In order to find a person you love, you must figure out your common interests and your common dislikes. From that you find the person you want to love.

I remember when I was younger and the “Truth about Cats and Dogs” came out I must have seen it a thousand times because it inspired me. It teaches me to be confident and accepting of myself to allow people to love me for who I am and to see the truth in others. I have not seen the movie in a few years and seeing it on television tonight with my granny sparked the influence again.

To me, if someone is shallow and only sees the looks, they will miss the one true love in their life. It is what brings joy to life even for people on the Autism Spectrum who have those loving feelings as well.

A movie I can’t wait to see come out in theaters and I hope the critics love it very much is the Hugh Dancy film called “Adam.” It will be phenomenal.

Anyway, I know someday I will find that person for myself, but please take it easy and I will post again soon. Enjoy this video I put up.

out, J

Figuring the world out takes a lot of time and experience. For Neurotypicals, this is as easy as 1-2-3.

For people on the spectrum it takes more practice and more time to understand how the world works. For instance, when you take the Latin community for example, there are many people in that community to begin with that know that every one who doesn’t speak Spanish must speak Spanish in order to communicate with them. I have many friends in the Spanish community especially George. Though, when I look at my friends like George, I think to myself they are nothing like those other Spanish people that feel that way. Which goes to show you that not everyone in every culture is the same. The same goes for Asperger people like myself too. You can not judge a book by its cover. Though sometimes my other Spanish friends tend to speak in Spanish when they don’t want me to hear what they are saying. Ha, since I do know Spanish, I can figure out the words, but they counter it by speaking even faster than the speed of light just to make sure I don’t hear them. Geez, I wonder what they are saying. Well, that is why it is none of my business.

Anyway, Neurotypicals find it very easy to figure out the world and how it seems to everyone else. Some Neurotypicals tend to have not so much easy patience when it comes to Asperger people trying to understand. The ones that do have patience, understand a lot more.

The very aspect of our desires to understand the world and figuring out how to survive is a natural part of our creation. The eternal one created this world in order to accept a mission, but with every mission there are challenges. And every challenge gives us the primary feelings to overcome it for most. Though, some people find it too difficult to overcome the challenge so they just let themselves go. Meaning they tend to give up. No body should give up.

Giving up on life and not heading into the challenge is not the way to go. Living with trying to overcome that challenge by working with your strengths to improve your weaknesses is the best way to do anything.

To Aspies like myself, we are better than Neurotypicals in the world because of our challenges.

OUT, J

Today as we embark on our new work week, we try to envision a very good week on the job and at home.

So, to begin this work week we start out with a song from Starship called Nothing’s  Gonna Stop Us Now from the movie Mannequin.

“And we can build this dream together
Standing strong forever
Nothings gonna stop us now”

The song is very powerful and strong especially when a man and a woman fall in love together and every one around thinks it can’t work out because the two of them are very different either in culture, religion, or very different in other respects.

It’s not over till its over because till we are old and gray and on our deathbeds.  As you fight for your right to become the man or woman you want to become, people may stand in your way trying to push and shove you, but that is not how it is supposed to be. In order to get to Peace of Mind, you must get to peace of mind.

Everyone’s peace of mind is something different and what we want it to become.  Some may just want to not be influenced and try to be told what to do, yet you should always say to yourself and them, I AM ME and want to accomplish something and NO BODY tells me what I can or can not do.

If I want to be somebody I CAN.  I can be the successful person just the way many other people have been even from the past of men and women who have died like Albert Einstein (on the spectrum), Thomas Jefferson (on the spectrum), or even all those others that have triumphed and proved the whole world wrong.

There are failures in this world and those are just the people that let themselves go and let their minds detach without any goals.

REACH for the stars!

out, J

How many menu’s are their in life in meeting all sorts of different cultural people in the world?

Take a guess, 1, 2, 1000, 199999999999, 99999999999999999999, etc.

What do you think? There are so many fishies in the sea.

And another thing is it doesn’t matter what culture she is from…

live your life and like whoever sparks you and gives you hope for a great future.

out, J

Why do things have to happen a certain way? I don’t understand.

I spoke to a colleague today at work who talked to me about how her said life that made her rebel and then realize about her family. Then, I mentioned a little bit about my family how my brothers and I were spoiled rotten and now we have entitlement issues. In the end, there is a realization that we all must come to.

Whether you have it one way or the other, a realization must come forth to know what life is all about.

Life is no joke. Parents, children, friends, people you know may think and know that life is a joke, but it is no joke at all. We all have a mission in life that mission leads to one thing and that is realization of what the eternal one wants from us to all know.

A bad man will get what he deserves in the end, a good man will get the love he deserves always even when the bad man tries his darndest to get the good man to suffer.

Love is the only healer for the good when the bad has done wrong. Even when a person does wrong and still wants his money, he will go to hell in the end. We all learn from our mistakes and learn that life is a journey that will be forever taken into account.

out, J