You never know what will happen, but this week could be a very good week if only I let myself breathe easier by thinking optimistically. There are many ways in which things can turn out good by transferring negative energy out in to the sky, and lifting yourself up with positive energy by first smiling. A smile brings out the joys in life even when things are bad.

Self-confidence comes in many different packages with Self-Esteem to which why many people with Asperger Syndrome like myself should read the current book, Self-Esteem and Asperger Syndrome by Norm Ledgin. Zosia Zaks book, Life and Love, Positive Strategies for Autistic Adults sounds like a good book for me to read as well as other people with Asperger Syndrome. Which comes to a very important conference that I attended.

The AHA conference was pretty good. I found it very informative and helpful. The keynote speaker’s speech on Sexuality was very good and funny too. One of the things that you have to realize about sexuality is that there is a hidden social component that is very hard to understand. There are articles on the internet on Flirting that can help as well as a good book that has good information.

When knowing the social component of sexuality, you can understand more when you are gaining consent from the opposite sex (or for people that like the same sex). For me though, I am like the opposite sex and need to understand the hidden social component by reading up on flirting which is why I don’t date.

Yet, I found out a good read is DATING FOR DUMMIES because it has very good knowledge on what, where, and how to date by showing people in a book the nature of flirting (social component of sex). Sex is more than what you would think.

Anyway have a great day and posting later on,

out, J

I wonder this, what about yourselves do you think there is a woman out there who can take me for who I am. I don’t limit my horizons with woman unless persay the woman is not up to par to me…LOL!

out , J

It is definitely a small world after all and I will tell you why.  We are all connected on this planet no matter what anyone else thinks, that is why we shall not limit ourselves to our own culture and flock to everyone.  When looking for a girlfriend, you must not limit yourself to just your own people and culture either.

Remember the song from Disney It’s a small world after all.  Who sung it anyways.  It was a great song way back then and even now. It also has a lot of morals to it.  Lot’s of Disney and Looney Tunes have morals to it.  Even other cartoons have morals to it.

Listen to that song It’s a small world after all and comment on what you think about the lyrics and what it means.

Feel who you are and feel who you can become, don’t leave any person out of your sight even if they are not in your culture because different cultures can be where you find the one will love for the rest of your life.

Take your life, take your strength, take all yourself and move in to this world with utter ways to different cultures learning and discovering new things, new languages, and feelings for other people.

You will love and if you limit yourself, you limit your way of life in utter love.

Don’t take life for granted!

Anyway, posting something else now,

Remember that about life,

out, J

also if the woman that you like is older than you its no big deal because if at least that woman is not 20 years older than you, its okay.  I’d say that there are no rules, but for a general sense you can be with a woman between 5 -10 years older than you, or the woman could be your age or a year or two younger, but that is it in my book.  Anyway, every one writes a different book for themselves because some people feel as long as she is over 18 then its fine.

Anyway, my feeling is older doesn’t matter,  or my age or one or two years younger than me.

Gotta get going,

out, J

How about there song, When love and hate collide?

Anyway I like how the song starts out, here is a glimpse of def leppard’s lyrics to that song, but please listen to that song today…

You could have a change of heart
If you would only change your mind
Instead of slamming down the phone, girl
For the hundredth time
I got your number on my wall
But I ain’t gonna make that call
When divided we stand, baby
United we fall

Got the time, got a chance, gonna make it
Got my hands on your heart, gonna take it
All I know, I can’t fight this flame

You could have a change of heart
If you would only change your mind
Cause I’m crazy ’bout you baby
Time after time

…

I think this song is about the fact that when guys and girls break up, What happens?  They fall a part due to not loving each other anymore.  How can that happen it doesn’t make sense?  When a woman has sense to not love a man anymore it doesn’t make any sense? Life is a journey that we have strides and we have release, and when things happen like break ups, its a huge release.  Take a look at the world around us, if there were no break ups or hook ups, then life would also be boring.  G-d created man and woman in order to find each other’s love for one another.  Not everyone in the world is made for oneanother.  When  men like me with Asperger Syndrome have trouble expressing themselves towards a woman they really enjoy being around and want to share their love,  it is like a fish in the sea that fell in love with a land animal, they just can’t express themselves to that land animal out there.  So, what happens, either the fish try harder or becomes lonely wishing he was a land animal by trying to jump out of the water or accept the fact about being a fish in the water lonely for the rest of his life.

The same goes for me and this probably gets the woman who I like and likes me back very upset and even the women of the future that I will like and will like me back.   So, the idea is not to be a fish in the sea and earn my wings to fly out of the sea and meet that special woman in my life who I love and loves me back.

Here we go now,  here is from Black Eyed Peas song:

Everybody, everybody, let’s get into it.
Get stupid.
Get it started, get it started, get it started.
Let’s get it started (ha), let’s get it started in here.
Let’s get it started (ha), let’s get it started in here.
Let’s get it started (ha), let’s get it started in here.
Let’s get it started (ha), let’s get it started in here.
Yeah. S o let’s have me be a changed man with the notion that I can express myself for the special woman I love, help me out here and offer some advice…

Posting later on,

Out, J